Life is a cycle without beginning and end which is a process of evolution, there is no such thing as starting point and destination in the never ending cycle called life. Therefore, do not take winning and losing, right or wrong, good or bad too seriously in life, for life is a play field on which you experience who you are not so that you can one day begin the process of choosing who you really wish to be. The focal point of life is about experiencing itself, everything else that happens in your life are simply conditions and situations necessary to make your experiencing of life possible.
Choose to live consciously in every moment, to witness without interference of your reasoning mind how the people, conditions and situations unfold as they do during your lifetime.
Your life will be filled with more joy, serenity and freedom when you simply experience it the way it is.