Could you be easily offended by what others said about you? If the answer is usually Yes, you know that this is the result of your attachment to your identity – your ego, the concept of you created by your mind that is the one feeling offended.
The real you however lies beneath the concept of you who cares nothing about what others said and think about you as it does not interpret what happens according to what you think to be right or good and your notions about what actually happens.
Who you really are is always observing and spontaneously responding to what is in the present moment. The real you is eternal made of energies of unconditional love and joy, which is utterly unoffendable.